I’m not surprised. I could take all my extra income and build a tribute to his legacy. Both the Declaration of Independence and the United States Constitution, at one time, were considered elitist documents. Saturday, February 2, 2008 - The only way a sister can get the recipe is either by helping to make the punch, which is rare or by becoming the Social Chair. I dropped off because I didn’t like feeling like I was being controlled and made to feel fearful of venturing out of my dorm room and facing a “big brother.”. Comment by brotherpeacemaker | It appears you have a lot of knowledge dealing with African American History, and the African Culture…yet you haven’t stated what you have done or plan to do to improve the current state of the black community. And each year my undergraduate chapter and our graduate chapter gave out scholarships to African American students seeking to further their education in a university. Being that I am far younger than you and many of the people that have commented on this piece, I find it very interesting how many people of the generations before mine have come to shape their feelings on Greek life and our community as a whole. Alpha Phi Alpha was developed to help Black men excell academically. Black people were actually imitating the Greek based social organizations of white people. Comment by Rashid | | Reply. Comment by BlackExplotation | If you don’t approve then I must simply suffer your disappointment. We need to focus on the issues and refrain from petty name-calling that diverts us from constructive dialogue. And I’m not talking about how much you’ve towed the line and carried out the fraternity’s agenda. Clear with red graphics. anyway if you do drink it, i suggest that you make sure that you have a reliable ride home and that it is with someone that you trust!!!!!! | Reply. African Americans, Black Community, Black History, Life, Thoughts. It is a very powerful alcohol and is even illegal in several states. All. I would enjoy returning to an organization that is sensitive to the needs of the black community. After all, my grandfather was a great man and I remember him well. I have heard plenty of stories of girls getting intoxicated on the juice and as with any alcoholic beverage, doing things they regretted in the morning. If you are interested in gaining recognition from a set men who will only acknowledge you as an Alpha if you go through the “pledge” process then, I guess, you would have to submit to this avenue–although, by doing so, you are also participating in a non-sanctioned activity. I figured it was better to drop. I guess we’ll never know. Of course, being on the outside looking in, I can only guess. Thanks for the post. | Reply. | Reply. What sort of fraternity Whether its ninety million or ninety six million dollars, I believe the fraternity’s goals are misguided and the money is wasted if it is not being used for the betterment of the black community. Thanks to all. Friday, November 6, 2009 Thursday, August 19, 2010 I would first like to thank you for writing such an interesting piece. Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. We have come so far as a People…I’m currenly a senior and i was about to undergo the Alpha process (in which my purpose for joining was lucid) but something was holding me back. Dog Tags. Anyway, i mention this to state that my reasons for joining have now changed and that there are other options to be an Alpha man, and it is soon to that time when i must make a clear decision. | Reply. To me, maybe ninety million dollars isn’t that much for the price he payed, his life. wow, i jsut wanted to say thank you for this honest post. Even when institutions try to implement steps to correct the racial disparity courts will rule in favor of the artificial concept of reverse discrimination. I do believe Alpha Phi Alpha has contributed a lot to the community. I’m rather disappointed that we can’t see more eye to eye on issues with respect to the black community. Comment by Called toLead | But at the same time I see peace’s logic that it has lost sight of it’s true intentions. When I made the choice to pledge the fraternity I made the sacrifices to become part of the organization and do what I could to help the frat, help the college I was attending, and help the black community. The sweet concoction tasted like seriously fruity Kool Aid. I don't know about the "frat punch" your refering to. The fact that it has done great things in the past does not justify its future. We (men) sometimes don’t finish school, drop out due to drugs, alcohol, new borns, etc… Having an opportunity to see individuals of great worth, with higher learning a God given right has allowed many of my brothers the ability to continue on their paths, not be swayed by outside influences and achieve their dreams. Far from it. | Reply. Change can happen from without. Monday, February 4, 2008 Who’s to say that we are not planning a 200 billion dollar program to improve the black community? The Nigerians had lost their spirituality a long time ago and were a mere shadow of their former spirituality. can you say hang over??????? Comment by brotherpeacemaker | Do I love Alpha Phi Alpha? 1 1/2 cups ground pork 1/4 cup chopped pecans 1 1/2 tbsp fresh sage 1/2 cup chicken broth 2 eggs 1/2 tsp pepper … Comment by Curious Observer | In terms of Alpha Phi Alpha being a “Greek” organization. But what better way to help guide a struggling people, than organizing a group of like minded individuals who all embody the idea of a better tomorrow. Help me out here, anyone? If so that’s what I need. Did you know this information about these fraternities and sororities? I agree with your opening quote HOWEVER, i refuse to limit an ‘Alpha’ to just a fraternity. The push for the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. memorial only confirmed my choice. Alpha Phi Alpha™, the first intercollegiate Greek-letter fraternity established for African American Men, was founded on December 4, 1906™ at Cornell University in … If you feel that being a member of such an organization is important to you I don’t have a problem with it. I say this to say that voices of reason and justice must continue to challenge these organizations, as well as other organizations that promise and promote community uplift, to live up to their mottos and creeds. Even though the program is specified just for black children, 90% of the children in the program are black. Are you now saying that no one in Nigeria is materialistic? I am an Alpha, but it doesn’t define the man I am today, it is one of the building blocks that I remember that sometimes will allow me to complete a task or endeavor. As a current and active member of Alpha Phi Alpha I respect your position. Tuesday, April 15, 2008 Comment by brotherpeacemaker | I do not know much about the other organinzations, but what I do know is that in the South, we are taught to be the best at what you want to do. | Reply. It subjugates people at a subconscious level. My question is are the intake officers aware of the time constraints of research needed to complete a thesis/dissertation during the process? Back Tag. That was beautifully put. Certainly, we realize that the work does not end after we have left our undergraduate years behind. Other black organizations have names that aren’t black. I’m glad they meet all of your community’s needs. $39.98 $ 39. $21.95. Belt. The only scene that I’m familiar with is the one where John Belushi is squishing mash potatoes out his mouth in an imitation of a zit. I also helped with an Alpha Chapter at a non-traditional school and they are doing great. There are better ways to promote the fellowship of black men. That helps to explain a lot. That is neither here-nor-there. You challenge me to start a ninety million dollar fund. Hell yes, within my heart and soul. Plaque. My college room-mate who pledged Omega via grad, spent very little time under the Que tent. Other black organizations have elements of separatism. Thursday, May 8, 2008 One of our advisors, who just so happened to be one of the deans of the college, once told a pledge that he should be thankful that he wasn’t pledging back in his day because Alphas don’t take kindly to members that were too dark. My process taught me how to handle these situations, increase my faith, and always hold my head high. Tuesday, November 10, 2009 Friday, August 15, 2008 Men can be leaders, in my view; Alpha Phi Alpha only DEVELOPS, enhances and equips these leaders with helpful tools to exercise their leadership. He introduced me to the world of black fraternities and the world of the Sigmas. Comment by Eugene | That’s to blame on the individuals for straying from the main purpose of a fraternity, not the name. You say that you feel Alpha Phi Alpha has contributed a lot to the community. Learn to let go of that black and gold chip you are wearing on your shoulder. Tuesday, November 10, 2009. I am very serious about helping those in my community, the black community, and think that even attempting to undergo the process as a senior would show that. | Reply. | Reply, “Anyone could be a follower, but a true Alpha knows how to lead.”. Did you move outside of a poor undergrad experience? Any organization would be that much greater with your affiliation. Over 175,000 worth. There is a fundamental difference between a social club and a fraternity. Kappa Alpha Psi Brother from University of Maryland Creates Video Paying Homage to His School and Nigerian Heritage. We africans also have events that are supposed to bring about an aristocratic air about them. And for those who have not been paying attention, I did not leave Alpha Phi Alpha because the organization promotes wasting money on tributes to the past. I do agree with you that the money could be better spent on improving the community. My Dad gave me the best advice when I left for college: he said he knew I was going to drink, and if so, that I should stick to beer, because you know how much you have had and how much you can handle, and that can't be said for some concoction whipped up at a fraternity party. If the verdict comes back that Alpha is lost then a huge chunk of me would want to pledge even more. | Reply. I am not here to question whether you were a member of Alpha or not. Some people start to feel inferior. Monday, October 7, 2013 I like the frat punch..... http://www.greekchat.com/forums/ubb/smile.gif, when i was in college, they called it hunch punch and get this, it was something that they only gave to the female students. But it came back up like fire. So what is the argument here? Groove Phi Groove Brothers from New York Created This Stroll to Celebrate Their 58th Founders Day. No, the only change worth attempting are the ones you criticize, otherwise its just complaining. If you choose not too, again it is a decision that you made and is in my eye in direct opposition to the oath that you may or may not have taken. Why did he not become an alpha at morehouse? I find your typical response as a priviledged leader of the community amusing with your accusation that I have baseless assertions. Also emphasize the importance of hazing prevention as an area of leadership focus. | Reply, First, let me say greetings brother. Alpha Phi Alpha is the first intercollegiate fraternity established by African Americans. I may give my brothers a lot of static, but I do love my frat. God Bless, Comment by dejavu | That is, if you are truly joining for the right reasons. I know my intellectual worth and I am passionate for the furtherance of humanity, particularly the black community. If ever you want to come back and you are a duly initiated Brother, the door will always be open. Thursday, August 7, 2008 Definitely I agree, the Process i believe is what builds up the “Alpha Man”. Funny, but I lost track of my fraternity bothers and fraternity itself. We've all been warned never to drink that stuff at mixers and parties and whatnot. The brothers at the university across the way kept their distance. Which is why I refuse to let myself be led down the typical fraternal path of self indulgence and decided to do my own thing. Why should Alpha Phi Alpha be different? It is intended as an honest evaluation of the choice to be a beacon of the past instead of a leading star of the future. At least it was for me. Sunday, July 6, 2008 The issue is not the name. I have been a member of Phi Beta Sigma since Fall ’91. I did not have a great experience as an undergrad at another university but am wondering what your thoughts are? | Reply. A bit of tongue in cheek but the point is the same nevertheless. Jul 12, 2019 - Explore Sara Romage's board "Sorority" on Pinterest. On the campus at which I attend school, frat punch is very popular. Sunday, November 23, 2008 | Reply, I’m 47 years of age and would love to join the Alpha Phi Alpha here in Fayetteville NC how would I do that please let me know Sincerely your Eriq McDonald…, Comment by Eriq | But keep in mind, you do not need to join a fraternity to help the Black community. I love the "frat punch" that Ive had at one of the fraternity parties here. lemon rind, grated 1 c. whipping cream, whipped One member argued, the oath you took. I was in the second semester of my freshman year at a large white school in the South when I lasted all of one week on line for Alpha Phi Alpha. Therefore, a tribute to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. represents a last tribute to a man who greatly impacted not only America, but the entire world. Why should Alpha Phi Alpha be different? The process I went through taught me to stand strong through any situation. I hope this gave a good change in pace to the many new brothers that you may have seen that do not embody or display what it is that such a great fraternity offers. 99. Comment by Will | I say this to say that the same events you complain about that are not of the black community are also done in the african culture. Now that my identity in life comes from being a father, a husband, an IT professional and a man who can appreciate the varieties of life….Phi Beta Sigma is the only choice for me. | Reply. Comment by Tori | As a whole I see Alpha Phi Alpha as the best because of what it has done not only for me but for our community. Wednesday, March 12, 2008 There is alot of that in Black sorors. Shop the latest Alpha Phi merchandise from our licensed vendors on our brand new store. Learn about what it means to be an Alpha Phi. I am not the first brother to leave the frat. As I stated previously, my point is to place Alpha Phi Alpha within a social context–not to excuse its failures and shortcomings. But you need to face the fact that Alpha Phi Alpha isn’t for everybody. Omega Psi Phi fraternity has been starting a new chapter every month for two years, and Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity has grown by more than a third in … to black men, women, and children. Chapters Canada. Alpha knows the job is far from over….that’s why embark on new goals each and every year for us to meet. I have already begun to and will continue to help my community in a number of ways. Friday, June 20, 2008 With any entity of people there will always be the chance for exceptions. Maybe so. My ways are not the ways of Alpha Phi Alpha, Inc. A black organization should base its foundation not on Greek culture but on African culture. If you are serious about helping the Black community, do not participate in any activities–whether fraternal or not–that lend to not allowing you to achieve at the highest academic level during your senior year. Everything stated, I completely agree 100%. I attended a historically black college that had already seen the best of its days. While these documents promise much for the nation, regardless of their words, they do not apply equally to all. The choice is entirely yours to make. I rejected BGLO’s the moment I became a freshmen because the black greek affiliated men on campus are some fools (no offense). Tuesday, April 28, 2009 You are most correct, I should not be generalizing the organization. You, like many other brothers, insist that the only change worth attempting is the change from the inside. Our community’s success doesn’t hinge on the activities of Alphas, or Omegas or any other organization. Wonderful vintage souvenir beer pitcher. A fraternity is a society of college men formed for a common purpose. Any proud African American can see that our community is struggling. Each frat has their own type of punch,i.e. Jan 14, 2020 - Explore Tameika Foreman's board "Happy founders day" on Pinterest. It did not happen in a vacuum. | Reply. I love my education, and I am imbued with Alpha Phi Alpha in my spirit and heart; thus, I don’t feel like being beaten will make me love my fraternity any better. Greater explication of how Alpha promotes leadership through proprietary programs and hosted events, as well as a multitude of external leadership growth resources. It is a fraternity. So i have done research and find that frats are not just what I had seen on campus. I really enjoyed your article. It’s good to see that Alpha Phi Alpha is meeting its goals. 1. still remained friends with me after he went over. After personal deliberation, I have come to the conclusion that, whatever we do, we must serve as role models for those that we wish to lead. It didn’t work out. I truly doubt if any of our ancestors dressed up in black tie attire and flowing ball gowns. But lemme tell ya it will get you really messed up. Each frat has their own type of punch,i.e. | Reply. Did anyone else think this thread was gonna be about the donkey punch? Comment by Panamajck | In an attempt to redirect my focus let me restate my questions. Ninety million dollars could go a long way for helping black people do something wonderful in the community. Although MLK’s connection was a huge reason of why i considered to be part of the organization, it was not my sole purpose but i still pondered that thought. I was merely identifying a characteristic that I felt was noteworthy. However, what I do know is there is this tension. Mine is a personal choice to pursue another direction. Comment by brotherpeacemaker | You may have found individuals who share your sentiment. Change can happen from within. You’re not a real brother unless you’ve gone through some adversity, the thinking goes. However, this does not mean that it is not a problem. Hence, the reason for me to leave. | Reply. My chapter is devoted to helping out the community in every way, shape or form. Please be careful with that stuff, you could down a whole bottle and not even know it. but if you feel you have contributed to our community in another way that surpasses raising 90 million dollars please let me know. There are plenty initiatives that doesn’t require 96 million dollars. Our organizations are amomgst the greatest in the world. I love all people but especially my people, and with that I will say that regardless of any organization affiliation that I may have in the future, I will better everyone around me. 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